At the top level, I’m a queer, cis woman living in Ōtautahi, Aotearoa with my wonderful hubby and our beautiful doggo, Kahu.
Dig a little deeper, and you’ll see someone who: helps others by default (and consistently practices saying no), works to unpack perfectionism and not feeling enough (and helps others fight against those voices) and who loves human beings and believes they’re capable of incredible things (who also gets super ragey at human beings and mankind when I see others or myself being treated poorly).
In short (oh, I’m also fairly short), in some spaces I’m a walking contradiction and I’m sure I’m not alone in that.
If the above sounds cool and you want to keep in touch, thank you so much for that gift! However you see me, I hope the helpful piece for you in that brief intro can be recognising that you’re not one way either. And that isn’t a problem. You may be super disciplined in some areas and not in others, you may be the life of the party sometimes but also really want to hide from the world and be over ‘peopling’. Being inconsistent isn’t a problem. You’re not a problem.
Big love, hope to see more of the beautiful varied you xx